61 things most girls dont know:

1. Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them!
(oh yeah..you're not "popular" if you've slept with more than 6 guys..you're a HOE)

2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

3. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

11. Guys get jealous easily.

12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

16. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

17. Guys are very open about themselves.

18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

23. Guys will brag about anything.

24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful.If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.

25. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

26. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

27. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

28. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

29. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

30. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

31. Try to be as straightforward as possible.

32. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.


33. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

34. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

35. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

36. Guys don't really have final decisions.

37. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

38. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

39. When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.

40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

41. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

48. If you are going to reject a guy, just do it. Don't say they are like a brother or just good friends, it just hurts even more. Tell them that you aren't interested in a relationship and they will respect you.

49. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

50. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

51. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

52. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us.

53. We don't like girls who are too skinny.

54. We love it when girls talk about there boobs.

55. Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy ...like wheather it's a one time deal or not ....

56. Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to..it may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unoticable tell them about yours...

57. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

58. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs..

59. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts...

60. Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn't intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that...after you let him know a couple times.

61. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

It Could Have Been a Perfect Night

A while ago, this place was full of fireflies

The stars were brightly playing with their lights
The moon was peacefully showing its elegance
Then there was a breath-taking spectacle..


Brilliant lights were shooting from all directions
It was a magnificent display of fireworks
Then I realized, it was so much better
They were stars; A meteor shower is happening


I was like a child clapping my hands in delight
And fireflies were swarming above my head
They were dancing the rhythm of the falling stars
I lazed on the soft grass fixing my sight above


I would have loved to see the glow in your eyes
Sharing this splendid spectacle with me
Then we would talk about happy thoughts
Our laughter will be the music for the fireflies


But all of these were but hopeless thoughts
My sadness and my anticipation for your presence
Is enough for me to leave the joyous fireflies
To leave the festive meteor shower..


Everything was perfect on our meeting place
sad to say, you did not come..

Ya man patranslate yo este poema na un amigo.hehe

Tu Guia


Cuando que ay olvida
Conel un noche lleno
De alegrias
Alegrias de un hente
Inocente de fantasma del mundo
Bien inocente


Hasta un dia
Mismo su alegria
Ya envolve
Conele na tristeza
Hambre, y rabioDe bien deficil
Escopa con el realidad del vida
Vida lleno de
Misterio


Quesejoda nuay queber na mundo
Fuerte te ne!
Masquin cuantos beses pa man saltajan
Nadaman o crosa miles de rio,
Mapuerza,
Na un caballo puede compara.. hehe


Na cueva escuro y peligroso,
Malandug man o seco,
Mantisud man o man muhmuh
Para lang sin miedo.


Un cosa lang el sigurao,
Aqui lang yo ta ama y ta suporta


Iyo el del tu guia.

Pangandoy lamang

Pangandoy nako nga mulupad sama sa hangin
aron mahalukan ang matahum nga mga bulak
Sa lugar nga ako lang ang makatungkad
kung diin ang sapa gasayaw sa katin-aw

Pangandoy nako nga mulupad sama sa hangin
aron matandog ang gasidlak nga bulan
Samtang gakatulog ang kalibutan,
gakos ko ang maanindot nga mga bituon

Pangandoy nako nga mulupad sama sa hangin
aron madala ko ikaw sa akong damgo
Bason pa lang matabo nga higugmaon mo ako..

Translation:

PANGARAP LAMANG

Pangarap kung lumipad kagaya ng hangin
upang mahalikan ang mgagandang bulaklak
Sa lugar na ako lang ang nakakatunton
kung saan ang batis ay payapang sumasayaw

Pangarap kong lumipad kagaya ng hangin
upang mahawakan ang nag-aaninag na buwan
Habang anmg mundo ay natutulog
yakap ko ang kaakit-akit na mga bituin

Pangarap kong lumipad kagaya ng hangin
upang madala kita sa aking panaginip
Baka sakaling mangyari na mahalin mo ako..

Beyond My Grasps

by: Christian Duran

As I walk into the room, my heart was beating so fast
My eyes were searching for someone I do not know
My mind was saying something I could not hear
Then suddenly, my trembling feet led me to her

She was a familiar stranger, it’s odd to say
Her smile captured me in every single way
Then I talked to her with words I can’t remember
Looking at her eyes, seemed like I’d be frozen forever

A flash caught my attention
A friend took a picture of me together with the girl
People clapped and cheered
The next thing I knew was I walked away from her

Seemed like i’m out of my mind
I left the room barely knowing her name
And now, she’s far away.. so far away
Will I ever see her again?

Then I realized, I already met her
She was in my dream.. the girl smiling in my dream
Destiny did its job, gave me a chance to meet her
But I ruined the opportunity, I barely know her name

I’m hoping that I will be given me another chance
That destiny will give me another oppurtunity
To meet her again and see her smile
The girl in my dreams

Sad to say, the chance given by destiny
Is now beyond my grasp
And all I have is but a picture of me and her smiling together
A picture that would remind me of her forever..

Mabuhok na Kanto

Sa isang kanto, isang matanda’y iika-ikang naglalakad
Nakangisi, sinusuklay ang makintab na buhok
Handang-handa nang umalis, dali-daling pumara ng jeep
Sa kanyang pagsakay, buhok ay nawala,
ang hangin ang tumangay.

Sa kanto ring iyon, isang ale ang aking namataan
Bihis na bihis, may akay na paslit
Handang-handa nang umalis, dali-daling pumara ng jeep
Sa kanyang pagwagayway, hindi namalayan,
buhok sa kanyang kilikili’y kumakaway.

Sa isang kanto, ako’y nakadukong naglalakad
Isang jeep biglang huminto, isang dilag ang bumaba.
Sa pagkamangha sa kanyang kagandahan,
siya’y aking nabangga
Ako’y humingi ng paumanhin,
ngunit ako’y hindi pinansin.

Sa kanto ring iyon kinabukasan ako’y bumalik
Paghinto ng jeep, ang binibini’y aking muling nakita
Sa pagbaba niya, panyo ay kanyang nabitawan
Sa kanyang dahan-dahang pagdampot, ako’y kinilabutan…
Mabuhok niyang dibdib aking nasilayan!

all I have

I am not great, that I know
I am not a head turner, I don’t stand out
I don’t have the looks that I can brag
And I asked myself, “What Do I Got?”

I am not an achiever, sad to say
I am not a math genius, to my dismay
I am not a witty debater, I admit
And I asked myself, “What Do I Got?”

I don’t have the talents to compete
I don’t have a golden voice you can appreciate
I don’t have the groovy moves you can follow
And I asked myself, “What Do I Got?”

I look at myself and all I see are words
Just words of emotions and meanings
And how do I use these words?
I use them to lead you to my world

I don’t know how to sing
I only have words playing the melody of my life
I don’t know how to dance
I only have words grooving with the beat of my heart

The beauty of a tiny raindrop I can describe
The harmony within a burst laughter I can play
The smell of blooming flowers I can share
The wonderful feeling of love I can portray

This is the world where I live
Where meanings and feelings took over
Because of the words that I can use
To give everything a breath of life

I may not be great, that is true
Though I have nothing but words
The meaning and the emotions in every line
Is enough to say that I am no ordinary man

funny Moments with a Mellow Dramatic Twist

by: Christian Duran

2 months na kming break ng ex ko dat time and within that period I have experienced several quite hilarious moments with her and when i think of it, imbes na mainis, natatawa pa ako.


Nung one time na nagkita kami, (break na kami nun) sinamahan ko xa papuntang Miag-ao. naglakad kami ng pagkalayo-layo para makasakay ng jeep. it was raining back then. Pinapayungan ko xa habang tinatanong kung alam nya ba talaga kung saan kami pupunta. She scolded me and said childishly, “dont talk to me!” sabay lakad ng mabilis palayo sakin habang basang-basa sa ulan. (hindi nya ginamit payong nya. dala-dala nya lang)


Tapos sa pagkahaba-haba ng nilakad namin, more than an hour, ang kinalabasan is mlapit lang naman pala sa dorm ko kami nag-abang. May alam sana ako na short cut. Mga 55 mins sana ang natipid naming time kaso wala akong idea na dun pala kami mag-aabang ng jeep tsaka di nya sinabi sakin, tinatanong ko naman xa. basa tuloy kami sa ulan. hehe, Ayos talaga ang lakad na to! D best!


Tapos nung nasa jeep na kami she said na kanya-kanya daw dapat ang bayad sa pamasahe. Paulit-ulit nyang sinasabi yun sakin. Tapos nung inabot ko yung pamasahe ko, tumingin xa sakin sabay ngiti. Sinama nya sarili nya sa bayad tapos hindi pa nya binalik yung sukli sakin. ayos di ba?


Then there was one time na nagtxt ako.. nagalit xa ksi ang kulit ko daw. Ayaw nya daw na magtxt pa ako. then after some hours, mga 12 midnight na cguro, nagtxt xa sakin at sabi nya paloadan ko daw xa ksi hindi na daw xa mkalabas sa kanila. Akala ko naman na nagpaload xa para makipagtxt sakin kaya sinunod ko sinabi nya. kaso ang tinxt nya lang sakin after matanggap ang load is “gudnyt.” (astig nga e!)


Days and weeks passed.. lahat ng txts ko hindi nya ni-rereplyan. Malapit na mag.Christmas nung mga time na yun kaya pabiro na lang akong nagtxt sa kanya kung anong gusto nyang gift (akalain mo, nagreply xa agad! grabe!)


Sabi nya pera daw. ang galing talaga nya. Pinaloadan ko naman xa ksi sabi nya hindi na daw xa makatxt ksi wla na xang load. Nung tinanong ko kung kelan kami magkikita, agad-agad nagset xa ng schedule. Ang rason kasi nya is because its Christmas, okay daw xa na makipagkita sakin. (ayos na rason noh?) Sinabi nya sakin na 8:30 sharp daw dapat nandun na ako sa meeting place (sa labas lang daw ng jollibee). After 5 mins aalis na daw xa pag wala pa ako.


Ako naman kasi nga uto-uto, nagpaloko. 8 am pa lang andun na ako. 9am na xa dumating. 1 hour akong nakatanga, at naghintay sa kanya at xa pa yung nagalit kasi daw gumawa pa xang assignment. Istorbo daw ako.(walang hiya, akalain mo naman yun!)


Maganda pa naman sana suot kong damit dat time-signiture shirt. Ang nakasulat ay: “single again but now with experience” may experience na magkaroon ng nobya, 1st gf ko ksi xa. Kulang na lang maghubad ako para man lang mapansin nya kaso wala talaga. Sa gift lang yung isip nya. nung hinihingi na nya yung gift, wala akong maibigay.


Hindi pa kasi ako nakabili. gusto ko kasing makita xa muna tsaka sa hapon na lang ibigay yung gift. nagalit xa tapos nag-walk out. nindi nya ako pinakinggan. pinaasa ko lang daw xa sa wala. I kept my word though. Bumili ako ng gift at binigay sa friend naming dalawa. ang friend na lang namin ang bahalang magbigay nun sa kanya.


I hope time will come na marealize nya mga ginawa nya and I pray na matauhan na ako na dapat ko na xang kalimutan kasi kahit ganun xa, kahit di na nya ako pinapahalagahan, mahal na mahal ko pa rin xa..

Hopeless Cliche

What is Love?

Love is to look at you

though you would not look at me

Love is to go closer

though you would go away

Love is to help you

though you would not thank me

Love is to smile

though you break my heart

Love is loving you

though you would never love me

If love is blind Then blind am I for loving you

Final Kiss

You let me kiss you every now and then

Yet you always wipe your lips in the end

If you only knew how it hurts me

I want to complain yet I can’t

I have long wished to touch your face

Yet that’s beyond my limits

I have long wanted to caress your hair

Yet I can’t even hold your hand

And now I see that you’ve found another one

His taller and good looking than me

How painful it is to see him there

Looking at you, expecting your kiss

You will no longer remember me

And how I touched your tender lips,

Before I bid goodbye, I beg you

Let me kiss you one last time

-Lipstick-